Category Archives: Trust

Relationship problems? Consider the long-term consequences of short-term decisions.

Posted on September 17, 2018 by Jeff Levine

Probably the majority of people who come to me for professional help are motivated by a relationship in some stage of breaking down. I’ve heard more often than I can count about how wonderful things were in the beginning, but … Continue reading →

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Part Two: Turning the Page on Sexual Misconduct: and Other Abuse

Posted on March 1, 2018 by Jeff Levine

In my recent article “Turning the Page on Sexual Misconduct”, I only focused on a most egregious and abhorrent form such behavior takes – when someone with a great deal of public power and influence uses it to manipulate, control … Continue reading →

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Turning the Page on Sexual Misconduct: Why We Must Look at What’s Behind the Behavior

Posted on February 16, 2018 by Jeff Levine

We’re all aware of the parade of powerful, public figures from Today Show host Matt Lauer to hotel and casino mogul Steve Wynn to White House staffers who have fallen in the #MeToo movement. It has gained momentum as women … Continue reading →

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A New Beginning!

Posted on November 22, 2016 by Jeff Levine

Saturday morning Ellie and I went for a long walk along the Hudson River. We used to enjoy these morning excursions as a regular part of our weekends. The operative phrase here is ‘used to’, which I’ll explain in a … Continue reading →

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Valentine’s Day: A Sweet Reminder

Posted on February 14, 2016 by Jeff Levine

It’s a time for sweetness – and yes some spice. You know what I mean — so make it nice. This day’s a “Sweet Reminder,” to say I love you. Of course you’ll say it once – but show you … Continue reading →

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